Graphs are not very exciting concepts but nevertheless they can be useful. Numerous games are just remakes of much more traditional ones. For instance, you get a version of Pac Man where the characters have sex onscreen. You get to play a favorite adventure whilst enjoying arousing graphics. Often there will be videoed scenes at high points in the game.
Write down your fantasies. This exercise can help you explore the possible activities that you find interesting for you or your partner. Try to think of an experience or movie that turned you on, and then share your experience with your partner. This is especially beneficial for people with low libido.
I think a lot of misunderstanding and problems between newly weds could be removed by premarital counseling. Men can be very naive about a women, her needs, her concerns, and her anatomy. I realize that with time, things will come together but it would be better if these things were taught sooner. There are still many newly weds who are not experienced in sexual matters.
Businessman Mark Taylor and Stacy, an interior designer had a love marriage and were sexually active pre-maritally. Extremely passionate, he would initiate and plan all the intimate encounters and expected Stacy to participate actively, though she was not relaxed with pre-marital sex. After marriage, Stacy dropped her inhibitions due to the social sanction in marriage and started initiating sex.
These ideas are not about fostering a climate of promiscuity, just the opposite. By taking ownership of yourself and your sexuality, with real knowledge, with understanding the importance of emotions and relationships we create a meaningful context to explore in.